Just Engaged? Here’s How to Plan Your Dream Wedding (Without Losing Your Mind)
First of all, congratulations! Whether your festive season came with a shiny new ring or you’ve been low-key dreaming of your wedding since forever, this is your moment. Take it in. Bask in the glow. Because before you know it, you’ll be knee-deep in seating charts and debating cake flavours. Fun times ahead! Here’s how to plan your dream wedding and kick things off in style without feeling like you need a degree in event management!
Step 1: Dream Big (But Together!)
Before diving headfirst into Pinterest or stalking your dream venues on Instagram, take a breather. Sit down with your partner and chat about what you both envision. Are we talking intimate fairy lights and 20 guests, or a full-on party with a band and a dance floor packed until midnight? Discuss:
Size: Intimate micro-wedding or all-out bash?
Location: Stay local or travel? Are Scottish castles and dramatic scenery calling your name? (P.S. Scotland does make for incredible photos).
Season: Cozy autumn hues, spring blooms, or summer sunshine vibes?
Style: Timeless elegance, whimsical florals, or full-on modern chic?
This isn’t about details yet—it’s about vibes. Pin that down now, and you’ll save yourself from spiraling later.
Step 2: Prioritise Like a Boss
Here’s the thing: Weddings are a balance game. Want it all? You’ll need Elon Musk’s budget. For the rest of us, deciding what really matters when planning our dream wedding is key. Maybe it’s jaw-dropping florals (you knew I’d say that), the perfect venue, an unforgettable feast or some top-notch entertainment. Rank your top three must-haves and let those guide your splurges.
Step 3: Timelines Are Your Friend
Your date might sound far away now, but trust me, time flies when you’re having (planning) fun. Get the biggies like venue, photographer, and florist sorted ASAP. Then pace yourself. A rough timeline:
18–24 months out: Venue, big vendors, vision locked.
12–18 months out: Dress shopping, entertainment, guest list vibes.
6–12 months out: Invitations, décor, and your food tasting (yes, this is the fun part).
3–6 months out: Final touches, confirm details, and celebrate the fact you’re on track.
Planning doesn’t need to feel like a full-time job if you break it into bite-sized chunks.
Step 4: Pinterest Is a Tool, Not a Rule
I get it—Pinterest and Instagram are rabbit holes of wedding inspo. But here’s the thing: they’re someone else’s wedding. Your big day should scream you. Whether that’s nods to shared hobbies, subtle inside jokes, or the way you mix tradition with modern twists, stay true to what feels right for you as a couple. Your guests will feel it too.
Step 5: Celebrate the Now
It’s so easy to get lost in planning the wedding that you forget to enjoy being engaged. Pop the bubbly. Have a mini engagement party. Take cheesy “just engaged” photos if that’s your thing. Because, let’s face it, this is a pretty magical season of life.
Trends to Watch for 2025 & 2026
Looking to stay ahead of the curve? Here’s what’s hot:
Sustainability: Think reusable décor, eco-friendly everything and watching that carbon footprint
Guest Experiences: From live entertainment to interactive food stations, it’s all about the wow.
Statement Installations: Floating florals, cascading greenery, whimsical lighting—go big or go home.
Personalisation: Unique touches that tell your love story (hint: your day, your rules).
Ready to Chat Florals?
If your vision involves dreamy, one-of-a-kind floral designs (spoiler: it should), I’d love to help. From wildflower-inspired installations to elegant bouquets, let’s create magic and plan your dream wedding that’s just as unforgettable as your love story.
Drop me a message here, and let’s make it happen. Your dream wedding isn’t just possible—it’s going to be breathtaking. Let’s start planning!
Congratulations again—you’ve got this! 🎉
Photo Credits – @esmesavillephotography | @willowandwilde.co
